Saw a guy miss taps in heavy silt once.

Ugh I totally disagree it's about the space design. The problem is PEOPLE treat online networking like a checklist task. They just want to add more contacts to their list without actually caring who you are. Even in a small breakout room, if someone's heart isn't in it, the chat still feels empty. Real connection needs real intent, not just a different video call layout.

I read a study last week that said public criticism, even as a joke, can backfire, which @claire_moore might agree with.

When you talked about "gray area requests from people you know," I felt that. My brother once asked me to pass his car inspection even though his check engine light was on. I said no because it screws up the system for everyone. He was pissed, but I explained it's about more than just his wallet. It took time, but he came around and now gets why I have to draw that line. Holding your ground sucks at first, but it keeps your conscience clean.

When you said your focus peaks when you remember where you put your pen, that's SO true. Nailing one tiny thing like that can make the chaos feel manageable.